Anonymous askedTo start, there were a couple lesbians at my school that were out and members of the “popular clique”. One in particular was really popular, good looking, sports-star, whole nine yards and when she came out, it seemed like she just got more popular. In fact, I’m almost positive that a few other girls in that group clung to her because they were still closeted, but they respected her for her openness. She never lost any respect nor did she loose her “status” within the school.
Now, as for my opinion, you shouldn’t have to hide yourself to your peers regardless of what you identify as. I know it sounds cliche, but if they really are your friends, then it won’t matter what gender you’re attracted to. I know there’s a stigma within those cliques, but maybe you could help change that stigma at least within your own school. Be a representative for the community by being out and proud and not hiding yourself just because you’re a cheerleader. Break those social norms and make a positive change. The world is changing; you never know how they might react.
You shouldn’t have to choose between truly being yourself and doing the activities you enjoy. And once again, if your friends truly are your friends, it shouldn’t matter to them. If it does, then they weren’t worth it in the first place and you’re better off without them.
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