Hmm, this isn't exaactly a question but more like a comment... to the girl in Boston. I'm in the Boston area too and have the same issue! My friends consist of straight girls and a gay guy. So all I hear is people talk about guys and most of the time I don't feel comfortable as myself. I'm posting as myself so if you want to follow me you can!
Just sending the message along to Lesbo-less in Boston.